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Some people come into our lives to teach Us a lesson and that is all the relationship should be but we sometimes hold out or hold on hoping to make a permanent event what God only ordained as temporary.
Every relationship be it man man,woman,woman or woman man is
usually so that we can learn something or redeem a past karmaic tie ,or learn a
lesson for a future purpose.
Unfortunately a lot of us let the pain cut so deep dwell in
the gloom that we never really learn the lesson the challenge is that should we
refuse to learn we will have to repeat the experience and sometimes in a way
more painful than the last .
That is why some men will say all women are the same or all
men are the same because they are attracting the same type of people based on
their vibration so Nneka comes but she acts just like Bose ,so you let go then
Bose goes but she is no different from Fatima.
The problem is not the women but the vibration you are
giving of that is attracting same type of people as it is for the men so it is
for women ,Emeka was a womanizer ,But now Abubaker is also a womanizer ,then
you switch to Lekan same story or Biodun used to slap you then you move on to Chinedu he
starts beating you again ok you hear Hausa men treat women like eggs then you
meet Umar quite unlike Hausa men Umar starts to beat you too .
Like I say we are all in class ,all learning I just happen
to be the Class rep
So with all I have said what is your current relationship
teaching you ,or what has it taught you
Or what did your last relationship teach you ?
Not all relationships will last a lifetime, some will come
and like a flash of lightening show us what we need to heal and just as they
came, they are gone.
But with God there are no loses only Lessons
So tonight again, my Question is what lesson is your current
relationship teaching you
And what lesson did you learn from your past relationship ?
How can you come to the realization of what the lesson to
learn is?
Well firstly it is usually something that irks and irritates
you anything that really pisses you of is a pointer to what you need to learn
to handle better e.g A man whose wife is a nag needs to learn to ignore, be
patient and hand over the matter to God.
A woman whose man is flirtatious with other women needs to
look away,hand over the matter to God
In this instance I am referring to married relationships I
know there are different types of relationships out there but by all means if
someone is ensuring you lose your peace of mind or the equilibrium you
desperately need to achieve greatness learn the lesson and avoid their toxicity.
But if you are married ehen ,just hand the matter over to
God and endure unless they themselves want out in which case you will be doing
yourself great injustice to hold on to them AGAINST their will even God permits
us freewill ,how then will you a human being want to hold on to another against
their will ?
Now sometimes you hand over the matter to God and keep
peeking/Peeping if God has answered or has indeed touched the person.
Maybe God is also waiting for you to trust him fully and
take your eyes of the situation like it never existed or doesn’t exist
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